Sorry Nobody Can Take That Decision For You.


I’m starting to receive a lot of emails, and even messages on this site that request advice on major, life-changing decisions… as if, I, and the site, holds some type of crystal ball that knows the right decision for your life, your family, and your happiness.
Do I quit my job?
Do I move across the country?
Do I build the website myself? Or outsource?
Do I risk going into business with Nnamdi or Joe or stay in school?
Do I start this business? Or that business?
Do I do this?
Do I do that?
Folks, I don’t know! 
I can’t make these decisions for you. 
The site cannot make these decisions for you. 
Everyone is different and only you know you. Some people are dealmakers. Some are introverts. Some are networkers. Some are analytical geniuses.
And yet, please understand that every decision of major consequence in your life carries with it RISK. And yet, RISK is fundamental to the Fastlane because it is the ROAD LESS TRAVELED and often involves sacrifice, and hard-work beyond the “well-traveled” road.
You have to do what is right for YOU and what YOU think will make you happy. And guess what? No worries — life is about happiness and being resolute in your dreams and goals. Whatever path you take,understand that everything extraordinary in life often involved an extraordinary risk.
So to sum it up, I don’t know if you should quit college.
I don’t know if you should quit your job.
I don’t know if you should move to another country.
I don’t know if you should quit that business and start another.
I don’t know if you should piss-off your parents and do what they don’t want.
I don’t know if you should learn how to code, or just partner.
And sadly,
the site doesn’t know if you should quit your job.
the site doesn’t know if you should move to another country.
the site doesn’t know if you should quit that business and start another.
the site doesn’t know if you should piss-off your parents and do what they don’t want.
the site doesn’t know if you should learn how to code, or just partner.
While I’m flattered that I am asked about such big decisions, my answers are automatically BIASED based on my life experience. The site responds in the same fashion.
This does not guarantee you will get a good answer based on what is best for YOU.
Take a deep breath, and ask yourself … What is going to make me happy not just this week, but over the long term? Should you be blessed with another 40 years of life, is this the path you want to take? And remember, not all of life is rainbows and unicorns, the challenging path is the path of growth.
As for my take on decisions, you should already know what my answer will be … the Fastlane path. But again, that is ME.
I am not you.
You may possess other strengths, talents, and attributes that make the other answer, BETTER.
Wishing you the best as you launch out into that life changing decision on your mind. Keep soaring!
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Credits
Author  : Pharm Anthony Uchenna Obi
Source link : http://fastlaneambassadors.com/2015/12/20/sorry-nobody-can-take-that-decision-for-you/
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